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The Joy and Time Travel of Anticipation

One of life’s greatest pleasures is the joy of looking forward to something good.

We experience anticipation as the optimistic feeling that links our Past and Present into the Future, as an emotional guess of what is to yet to be. Anticipation is a reflection of both the hope and the confidence that moves us forward.

We get to experience joy in the present for something yet to happen in the future.

We get to experience joy in the present for something yet to happen in the future. Anticipation comes from hope, confidence and efforts. I often anticipate seeing my mother and her wonderful garden. It motivates me to do what I can to help ensure that Future moment becomes my Present.

Our Past is a museum of frozen moments — loops and snapshots, memories and events. We look back with the aid of photographs, recollections and memorabilia of all sizes, and always we look back through the fuzzy gauze of time. Even the finest historians, busily pouring their Present time into studying the Past, only recreate a framework of facts and results of a particular bit of time gone by.

The Present is dynamic, sometimes varied and widely available. But despite bloggers and 24-Hour news the human experience is still localized to ourselves and limited by our brains. Here in the Present, none of us have a perfect understanding or awareness of this moment.

We balance the Present’s precious moment between the action and feelings we have now with traces of the Past and imaginings of the Future. Sometimes, like historians, we use up much of our Present exploring the Past — occasionally to our benefit, with a new realization or understanding, and sometimes by having a sweet recollection.

But sometimes in our Present we get to experience a taste of something that has yet to happen. Anticipation is the optimistic time travel that bridges our Past and Present, and transports us into our very own Future — creating in us both feelings and images of a moment yet to come, for us.  It is a jolt of joy, here in the Present for something has yet to happen in the Future.

Anticipation is part of living, and it varies in its type and magnitude. There can be the “body joy” of imagining having dinner, the “hard work joy” of visualizing a goal coming to completion, and the deep personal joy of being reunited with someone you love.

Anticipation of good things to come is threaded through the human race. It is deep in the core of every person — a manifesting of both hope and confidence.

Try-hard action items:

• Think about good things that are coming up — you can help yourself feel that positive anticipation.
• Do what you can today to help bring that Future moment to your Present.
• Honor the efforts of both yourself and others.

Experience the joy and time travel of anticipation.


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Beyond Keeping Up with the Joneses

When I was growing up “Keeping up with the Joneses” had an air of inevitability and a hint of disdain, as if someone was being excessive and pulling us along. Our culture seems to have gone beyond that level.

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Our shopping-oriented culture is now beyond compare, with warehouses filled with even more stuff.

Nowadays, many people in North America have more than enough of everything, and the choices for buying are beyond easy comparison.  Style, personal choice and the sheer magnitude of what’s available has changed the landscape and expectations for what any one person might have right now, today, let alone tomorrow.

There was a time when purchasing something was a big deal, and many people went weeks or months between getting something new. It was a time when we got solid use out of what we had, and though we might have dreams of more, we knew we didn’t actually need it.

Today we are lucky to recognize when someone has something new, unless they draw our attention to it.

Instead of an infrequent purchase awareness (“Hey, Joe got a barbeque even nicer than mine”) we now have a frequent and widening haze of purchases as we nod at our friend’s latest purchase and add yet another type of purchase to our busy shopping opportunities.

We have gone from upward to outward – leaving behind us a growing collection of stuff and the ability to really compare what we have to anyone else.

Try-hard action items:

– Please spend more time with friends and family, enjoying what you have.
– And if you can, share things: there can be more joy in sharing than owning.

I would never want someone to go without something vital, but there are many benefits and joys in frugal living.

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Setting myself in motion

Today I am laying the groundwork for new possibilities. Some days we are able to make progress on particular projects, but today I am building the foundation that will support my blogging, helping and communicating. I like working on websites, though I end up rediscovering techniques and using time learning to use the tools.  I… Continue Reading