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~ Rob Hueniken

From the monthly archives:

August 2009

A Windy Day Fan

by Rob Hueniken on Sunday, August 30, 2009

One of my favorite natural events is a windy day. Feeling the strong but invisible push against my face is a joy that I have felt since childhood. Barring flying grit, rain or the need to ride a bicycle, a windy day is a great way to have fun. I don’t need a kite or a reason — I just enjoy feeling the wind.

On rare days when the wind is very strong, I find that I can jump up into the wind and feel it hold me up — just for a moment — as I body surf on the air.

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In the city one needs to get to an open street or park to really feel the wind.  I don’t count the high-velocity air sluices that pummel workers between high-rises — that is not really wind — it’s a man-made pushing match between nature and people.

When we lived in San Diego there were steady, strong winds by the ocean shore. Walking there, I saw people controlling kites using two strings. I loved the idea of working with the wind and being able to control a kite, and took a good look at those aerobatic kites. I didn’t imagine trying to buy one — instead I lovingly created it out nylon and wooden dowling. When I was done with the thread, duct tape and glue gun it looked just like the kites I had seen others flying!

But when I tried flying the kite it fluttered to the ground immediately.  Confused, I asked some other kite flyers for a closer look at their kites. Sure enough, I had not swept the wing tips backward, to make the underside of the kite look like the bottom of a boat. That is why the old-fashioned kiddy kites never worked: they were flat. A kite needs to be V-shaped to let the wind sweep past it on both sides.

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Here’s a picture from today (Aug 30, 2009) with me holding the kite I made in San Diego.

Whether you are flying kites or just enjoying the breeze on your cheeks, I encourage you to be a fan of wind, and to reconnect with the simple joy of one of life’s earliest invisible mysteries.

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The wind beneath wasp wings

by Rob Hueniken on Saturday, August 29, 2009

While having lunch outdoors yesterday my friend and I were visited by two wasps.  The wasps in our area rarely sting you if you let them be, but “letting them be” usually involves them hovering around or crawling on both your food and yourself.

We kept hoping the wasps would go away but they persisted. It was too nice a day to eat inside and swatting the wasps with our forks was not going to be effective.

While we coexisted with the wasps we noticed that they liked my friend’s Caesar salad more than my Greek salad, so my friend got to spend more time with the wasps.

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But at one point a wasp flew slowly over my plate, very low – about an inch above the plate – and I saw the pepper and dry spices on my plate move around. The wind from the wasp wings was actually strong enough to create a tiny dust storm!

I had never thought before about how strongly wasps need to beat their wings in order to fly. But I realized at that meal that it is equivalent to a person blowing very gently – just enough to shift some pepper from an inch away.

It is a subtle reminder that everything we do can have a secondary effect, both on our world and on others around us.  People are much bigger and noisier than wasps, and how we drive, walk, and behave have effects beyond just moving us around or getting our things done.

What we do affects our world, far more than the wind beneath wasp wings.


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A Later Perspective with More Compassion

by Rob Hueniken on Thursday, August 27, 2009

It’s amazing how unchanging our perspectives can be over time. I had a chance yesterday to see how revisiting some details from my past could give me a new perspective and understanding of a situation.

Yesterday I got to reminisce at a party with a classmate from my childhood days, who I hadn’t seen in 30 years. This person was not a close friend of mine at that time, but a neighbor who lived just up the street from me. It was great to see her, and as we talked, the evening slipped away and back to grades 3 to 12.

escher_sky_water_fullWe shared stories — some of them unknown to each other, and some of them shared experiences from different perspectives.

As with all childhood reminiscing we revisited the chance to laugh about our teachers, like our highly-strung languages teacher who couldn’t keep control of the class. This teacher had been an easy target for mischief making.

As one of the guys in the class I remember many times speaking out of turn and working hard, not at languages, but at making the class laugh. I recounted how some friends found mushrooms in the schoolyard, and ran around pelting each other, as well as this teacher.

A new fact I learned last night was that this teacher liked shoes and had extra pairs in her car. The girls in the class would sometimes find her car unlocked, and stack the shoes on the dashboard – giving again the message “We don’t like you”.

I hadn’t thought about this teacher in a long time, and I realized, with a new perspective of compassion, that this teacher was the subject of a lot of ridicule by her students. It made me sad, and I wished that I and my classmates had acted differently at the time.

Everyone knows that children don’t have the full picture.  What is surprising is how even adults, who know there must be more to any story, can still maintain the same perspective we had as children.

I think we do learn from our past mistakes, and for me, revisiting the pain inflicted on a teacher has given me a renewed intention to be kind to those in my life.

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Becoming Batman

by Rob Hueniken on Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Our continued interest in comic book heroes reflects our admiration for those who help others despite the challenges.

When I was a boy I got my comic book fix in 12 cent monthly increments They were delivered via the local variety store called [in all its early innocence and lung-stomping dastardliness] the Smoke Shop. There, amidst my options of Donald Duck, Richie Rich and Archie comic books I would seek out the stories of how a rich guy, helped by the small but vital team of his butler and young protege, would use his wealth and techno-talents for good.

Helping others is a great passtime

Unlike talking ducks, gold-plated helicopter owners and red-haired perennial teenagers, Batman was focused on righting wrongs, and so was his audience. He was fully energized, serving where needed, and plenty able to get [the right] things done. The crooks and causes were pivotal but secondary, troublesome but not undefeatable. We knew good would triumph, even if it did get tied up from time to time, because Batman kept on trying.

There was a fellow comic-loving lad named Larry in my home town. The first time he and I got together at his place we each read a comic book. I was ready to read another but Larry said: “Let’s play together instead, and when you head home you can borrow some of these…” and he opened a cupboard door, to reveal hundreds of comic books, including dozens of Batman issues I had never seen. I felt like I had discovered the Lost City of Gold, but Larry already knew something I didn’t: that life isn’t about being entertained but doing things together.

In addition to whatever value those many Batman original pressings would have right now [somewhere between 12 cents and priceless], I wish our society would realize that we have almost everything Batman had back then. We have cool technology, greedy bad guys galore, and a lot of people shining bat-signals into the sky, asking for help. What we need to do now is not don a costume or slip into another bad guy-focused media event, but to start doing what Batman did best: serving where needed.

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Research shows that helping others relieves stress and depression, and actually brings us joy.

It’s time to stop feeling that the bad guys are getting too tough, and get energized. It’s time to get off the couch and start getting off on helping others.

Start small, but get involved. What’s going on in your community that could use some help? You can see Bat-signals. Go help someone!

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Poem – No Power Tonight

August 25, 2009

Here is my poem from the 2008 Waterloo writers’ anthology, “Words from Here”, ISBN 978-0-9682520-1-7. It speaks to the surprising situation and feelings one can have about our busy world when we are forced to experience a time without power at night. This poem might inspire further thoughts about how we spend our time, and whether we are truly happier being steeped in technology. No Power Tonight Tonight the power dimmed and went. A popping sound then lights were spent. The brightness of our pre-sleep home Replaced by flashlights and a careful roam. I peered outside and down the street. [...]

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Popsicles are for Sharing

August 24, 2009

When I was six years old my class participated in a track and field day at a neighboring school. It was a bus trip away and the spring day was hot and sunny [a rare weather condition in that Northern area]. Being frugal, my Mom had packed me a lunch, which I devoured between running events [I was a fast sprinter in those days, with two good ankles working smoothly beneath my shins]. As I walked around the school yard I saw two girls from my class eating Popsicles. “Where did you get those?” I asked eagerly. “Over there,” one [...]

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The Joy and Time Travel of Anticipation

August 23, 2009

One of life’s greatest pleasures is the joy of looking forward to something good. We experience anticipation as the optimistic feeling that links our Past and Present into the Future, as an emotional guess of what is to yet to be. Anticipation is a reflection of both the hope and the confidence that moves us forward. We get to experience joy in the present for something yet to happen in the future. Anticipation comes from hope, confidence and efforts. I often anticipate seeing my mother and her wonderful garden. It motivates me to do what I can to help ensure [...]

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Surely Sweet Summer

August 22, 2009

There was a long, cool spring this year, and many people complained – repeatedly – wishing for more heat and sunshine. I grew up further north so the cooler weather felt good. The garden has also flourished, rarely needing watering. But today was a fine summer day. There was beautiful sunshine and big, white clouds. It was well worth the wait. [Return to the home page of MakingMoreOfToday.com.]

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Beyond Keeping Up with the Joneses

August 21, 2009

When I was growing up “Keeping up with the Joneses” had an air of inevitability and a hint of disdain, as if someone was being excessive and pulling us along. Our culture seems to have gone beyond that level. Our shopping-oriented culture is now beyond compare, with warehouses filled with even more stuff. Nowadays, many people in North America have more than enough of everything, and the choices for buying are beyond easy comparison.  Style, personal choice and the sheer magnitude of what’s available has changed the landscape and expectations for what any one person might have right now, today, [...]

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Willow Creek Leadership Summit a growing success

August 21, 2009

Unlike conferences that focus on making money, the Willow Creek Leadership Summit focuses on inspiring and empowering leaders. Although run by a church, the Summit is widely attended by business people and community leaders who have heard about the amazing speakers and understand the great value this conference provides. The 17 Summit speakers represented a culturally and racially diverse group of leaders from business, ministry, politics and entertainment including: Willow Creek senior paster Bill Hybels, former British PM Tony Blair, Made to Stick authors Dan Heath and Dave Heath, renowned leader and thinker Gary Hamel, and U2 leader Bono. Some [...]

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